Wedding reception timeline for photo and video coverage
For most couples the reception is the biggest part of the day. This video walks through every formality we capture, in order, and how much open dancing we stay for.
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The reception order we capture, start to finish
The reception begins with the grand entrance, when everybody celebrates the two of you being introduced as a couple for the first time. It is usually followed right away by the first dance, a very romantic moment we want to capture, and then by the parent dances if you want them, usually son with mother and daughter with father.
Once the dances are done, the couple typically sits back at the sweetheart table or goes out for table touches, a good option because the food has not come out yet and everybody is still excited. At a Middle Eastern wedding, everyone is on the dance floor at this point instead, and that party lasts at least 30 to 45 minutes.
When things calm down a little, the entrees are served and the speeches and toasts happen. After the speeches you give a welcome speech to thank everyone, which is also a good time to walk around and say hi. Dinner follows, then games sometimes, and the cake cutting and bouquet toss toward the end of the formalities.
Speeches, dinner and why you should eat
We ask that speeches stay around 5 minutes each, whether the speaker is a father, a mother, a groomsman, a bridesmaid, the best man or the matron of honor. We want to get things going and not let the toasts drag, because everything after dinner depends on the room having energy.
During dinner things quiet down while everybody eats, and we recommend that the two of you eat your food too. If you skip it and guests keep coming up for photos, it becomes hard to take more photos later, since a lot of formalities happen after dinner and people are generally more active then.
How much open dancing we cover
As wedding day photographers and videographers, our goal is to capture all of the formalities from beginning to end, and then about 30 minutes to 1 hour of open dancing, which is generally sufficient. As soon as the floor opens, pull some family members out with you, especially your parents, and let them dance so we capture those moments right away.
How long we stay depends on the type of wedding. For a cultural wedding, a Middle Eastern or Persian wedding, or a Jewish wedding, we tend to stay longer to capture more of the dancing. For an Indian wedding, tell us what performances you have planned and we will stay through them.
What our team does about this on the day
Following the formalities in order
We follow your reception order with the DJ: grand entrance, first dance, parent dances, table touches, speeches, your welcome toast, dinner, then games, cake cutting and bouquet toss. Photo and video cover every one of them from beginning to end.
Keeping toasts on pace
Before the day we ask you to plan about 5 minutes per speaker, and on the night we are set up the moment the entrees go out, because that is when toasts usually start and when you give your welcome speech.
Catching the first dance-floor rush
The moment open dancing begins we are on the floor, because the first minutes with your parents out there are the ones we want most. We stay for about 30 minutes to 1 hour, longer for a Persian, Jewish or Indian reception.
Couples usually ask
How much open dancing do you stay for?
About 30 minutes to 1 hour after the last formality, which is generally sufficient for most weddings. For a Middle Eastern, Persian or Jewish wedding we tend to stay longer, and for an Indian wedding we stay through whatever performances you have planned.
Do we have to do parent dances?
No, it is up to you. When couples include them, the parent dances come right after the first dance, usually the son with his mother and the daughter with her father. If you skip them, the timeline simply moves on to table touches.
When should the speeches happen?
Usually once things have calmed down and the entrees are being served. Keep each one to about 5 minutes, whoever is speaking, and plan your own welcome speech right after so you can thank everyone and then walk the room before dinner.
What changes for a Persian, Jewish or Indian reception?
Mostly the dancing. At a Middle Eastern wedding the floor fills right after the entrance for at least 30 to 45 minutes before dinner, and at Persian and Jewish weddings we stay for more open dancing. Indian receptions often include performances, so tell us about them.
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