Groom getting ready with his groomsmen before a Santa Barbara wedding, photographed by Lulan Studio
Planning your wedding · Getting ready

Photographing the bride and groom getting ready in different places

For couples getting ready in two different places, this video explains how a single photographer covers both sides, in what order and for how long, and when we recommend a second photographer.

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How one photographer covers two getting-ready locations

It is very common for the bride and groom to get ready in two different places, a hotel and a family home. It is something we discuss with each couple beforehand to see what options they want. Some weddings are smaller or more intimate and have only one photographer, which is the case the video addresses.

How we typically arrange it is to start with the groom's side. Grooms are able to put on their jackets and shoes much faster, and they can do it at any time they feel ready, so they finish quickly, get dressed and then relax. We spend about 10 to 20 minutes on the groom's side.

Then we head straight to the bride's side for the additional photos of all the getting ready: details, final touches, the dress and bridesmaids. For this type of situation we do recommend two photographers, so team one is shooting the bride and team two is shooting the groom, which allows more comprehensive coverage on both sides.

Why the groom goes first

The order is about timing, not priority. A groom's getting ready is a short set of steps that can happen in any order, whenever he chooses. A bride's getting ready has a fixed sequence, hair and makeup, then the dress, then the veil, and none of it can be started early.

So the photographer goes where the timing is flexible first, asks the groom to do his jacket, shoes and cufflinks while the camera is there, then leaves him to relax. By the time we reach the bride, makeup is finishing and the unrepeatable part of the morning is about to begin.

Planning the distance between the two locations

With one photographer the travel time between locations comes straight out of your coverage, so it helps to keep the two places close, ideally in the same hotel. If they are far apart, tell us early so we can plan the start time around Los Angeles traffic.

When the distance is large or the wedding party is big, a second photographer removes the problem entirely: each team stays put and the two sides are photographed at the same time. It is what we recommend for two locations whenever your collection allows for it.

  • Tell us both addresses and the drive time between them.
  • Have the groom's jacket, shoes and details ready when we arrive.
  • Ask about a second photographer if the locations are far apart.
How we handle it

What our team does about this on the day

On the day · 01

Groom's side, 10 to 20 minutes

We arrive at the groom's location, photograph a few details, then ask him to do the jacket, shoes and final touches. In about 10 to 20 minutes we have his portraits and candid frames and leave him to relax.

On the day · 02

Straight to the bride's side

Then it is straight to the bride. Makeup is finishing, so we start with details and robe photos, then the final touches, bridesmaids and family, and the dress going on. Nothing here is rushed; the groom is already done.

On the day · 03

Two teams when we have them

With two photographers, team one stays with the bride from the start and team two stays with the groom. Neither side is compressed into a short visit, and both getting-ready stories are told in full before you see each other.

Questions

Couples usually ask

Can one photographer really cover both of us getting ready?

Yes, if the locations are close and the wedding is on the smaller side. We start with the groom for about 10 to 20 minutes, then move to the bride. The trade-off is a brief groom's side and lost travel time.

Why do you photograph the groom before the bride?

Because the groom's steps are quick and can happen at any time: jacket, shoes, cufflinks, done. The bride's morning has a fixed order that ends with the dress. Photographing the flexible side first means we are with the bride when it counts.

How far apart can our getting-ready locations be?

The closer the better with one photographer, since driving time is not photographing time. Same hotel or a few minutes apart is ideal. If the drive is longer, tell us early so we can adjust the start time, or add a second photographer.

Is a second photographer worth it just for getting ready?

For two separate locations we do recommend it. Team one photographs the bride and team two photographs the groom at the same time, so both sides get full coverage instead of one short visit. The second photographer keeps helping through the ceremony and reception.

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